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                                Tabitha的學習問題(I)-page2

總關我事

 

Dorcas的默書、測驗、考試,預備這樣那樣project的材料、資料,未能完全放手;小小年紀,出入數學、ballet班、看醫生,不可能常叫她一個人獨自去吧。家裡的大小繁瑣事務,總與我有關。可惜,新來的工人非常不力,又不愛護Tabitha,常常罵她(因為Tabitha經常不聽指示),令我很苦惱,極想換人,需要審慎處理,但又沒有額外精神好好選擇。

 

I need a BREAK

 

QuiescentTabitha的主日學老師,美麗、溫文、典雅。自從丈夫有cancer以來,她體諒我們疲於奔命,加上Tabitha平時在外常常木訥寡言,所以Quiescent有時會帶Tabitha去玩,逗她開心。她是地產從業員,工作時間比休息時間長,難得有一天假期,Tabitha出現了新問題後,也帶她去了Pizza Hut和科學館。好讓我可以喘息片刻。Quiescent的愛心,為我帶來千載難逢的幾小時清靜竭息。這份大禮,比收到任何名貴禮物更開心。

 

沒有半日閒

 

換來周末的幾小時清靜,還不是留在家裡,上網查詢有關IQ below average的資料,究竟是甚麼一回事、尋找互助組織、了解合適的培訓和收費、聯絡同類問題的家長、幫Dorcas預備考試、溫習自己的中醫課程、處理已過期的水電煤費、寄出幾封寫了N個月但仍未寄出的信、覆了幾個因事忙而匆匆給人家掛了線的電話。總之,沒有真正偷得浮生半日閒。

 

最好兩年

 

AttributesMeekness體諒我們的辛苦,說要接Tabitha到她們家裡分別小住兩天,好讓我們可以離開香港,真正竭一竭。我開心得發狂,可是 :「兩天不夠好,最好兩年吧,您們那麼愛護Tabitha,又細心。」我繼續發開口夢,希望這fantasy,有天真的可以夢想成真,就發達喇!

 

狂哭釋懷

 

Tabitha忙亂了好幾天。心情依然沉重,一直欲哭無淚。直至一天靈修的時候,讀到Oswald Chamber 寫的My Utmost for His Highest  (我們最愛的靈修書) 

http://www.rbc.org/utmost/index.php?month=05&day=23&year=06

的以下一篇  :

 

May 23, 2006

Our Careful Unbelief

. . . do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on —Matthew 6:25

Jesus summed up commonsense carefulness in the life of a disciple as unbelief. If we have received the Spirit of God, He will squeeze right through our lives, as if to ask, "Now where do I come into this relationship, this vacation you have planned, or these new books you want to read?" And He always presses the point until we learn to make Him our first consideration. Whenever we put other things first, there is confusion.

". . . do not worry about your life . . . ." Don’t take the pressure of your provision upon yourself. It is not only wrong to worry, it is unbelief; worrying means we do not believe that God can look after the practical details of our lives, and it is never anything but those details that worry us. Have you ever noticed what Jesus said would choke the Word He puts in us? Is it the devil? No— "the cares of this world" (Matthew 13:22 ). It is always our little worries. We say, "I will not trust when I cannot see"— and that is where unbelief begins. The only cure for unbelief is obedience to the Spirit.

The greatest word of Jesus to His disciples is abandon.

 

我祈禱 : 「神啊!我都不想unbeliefworry的,不過bad news實在太多,在 A  bad news事件中 believe完和不worry後,B  bad news又使我元氣大傷,未完全康復,CDEFG…. bad news又接踵而至,使我應接不暇。只因實在過多,請您幫幫忙吧!」說罷,狂哭了一場,終於可以暫時釋懷。

 

(後記 :

 

1       感謝神的安排,原要等上一年半載的中央派位training-- No author assigned in CUT,只等了兩、三天便有結果。自6月起,Tabitha會在樂富的痙攣協會接受智力訓練。

 

2       倘若您是同路人,以下有很多很有用的相關機構和網站,給您參考  :

a   協康會  http://www.heephong.org

b 香港特殊學習障礙協會 http://www.asld.org.hk

c   香港教育城 - 家長網絡 http://www.hkedcity.net/article/pare  nt_sp_learnbarrier/060109-003/

d    親子王國 - 特殊教育  http://baby-kingdom.com)

 

 

(寫於20066)

 

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